At the age of 35, Antonio Banderas unexpectedly became the stepfather to two young children, aged 6 and 10. Despite the years that have passed and his drastically different life now, he remains an integral part of their family.
Antonio Banderas, a renowned movie star, married Melanie Griffith, a woman with two young children, admitting that joining a ready-made family was daunting due to his lack of experience.
Spanish actor Antonio Banderas and American actress Melanie Griffith met while both were still married to other people. Griffith was married to actor Don Johnson, whom she had married twice before, but they officially separated in 1994. Banderas, at the time, was married to his first wife, actress Ana Leza, though they were in the process of separating.
After finalizing their respective divorces, Banderas and Griffith married in an intimate ceremony on May 14, 1996, in London.
In a 2011 interview with AARP, Banderas revealed that he had admired Griffith long before they met. He was mesmerized by her performance in the 1988 movie “Working Girl,” thinking, “Wow, she’s so beautiful, so special.” He later saw her at the Oscars, not realizing who she was until his friend Pedro Almodovar pointed her out. “Six years after that, we’re married!” Banderas exclaimed.
Their relationship blossomed while filming “Two Much,” as both were unhappy in their marriages. Banderas was captivated by Griffith’s beauty and her role as a mother. Unlike many on-set relationships that fizzle out after filming, theirs continued to grow stronger.
When Banderas married Griffith, she had two children: Alexander, from her marriage to Steven Bauer, and Dakota, from her marriage to Don Johnson. Banderas admitted that stepping into the role of a stepfather was challenging. He had to earn the children’s trust and assure them he was there to stay. He gradually built a solid relationship with them, providing the stability they needed.
Their bond strengthened over time, and his stepchildren soon realized he was a permanent figure in their lives. His daughter Stella was born, adding to the family dynamic, and Banderas worked hard to make Alexander and Dakota feel comfortable.
Banderas played a significant role in Dakota’s acting career. She appeared in his directorial debut, “Crazy in Alabama,” alongside her mother. Banderas cherishes the memories they made together on various film sets and treasures the relationship he has with his stepdaughter.
Sadly, after 18 years of marriage, Banderas and Griffith divorced in 2014, citing irreconcilable differences. Despite their separation, they maintained a friendly relationship, and Griffith acknowledged the beautiful time they spent together.
Years later, Dakota honored Banderas at the 2019 Hollywood Film Awards with a heartfelt speech, expressing her gratitude for his influence in her life. She referred to him as her “bonus dad” and praised him for brightening their lives with his creativity and culture.
In his acceptance speech, Banderas dedicated the award to Dakota, appreciating her continued affection and recalling the cherished memories they shared. He emphasized that their time together was not just about him and Griffith, but about the entire family.
Banderas has always been supportive of Dakota’s career, recognizing her talent and versatility. He highlighted that there was no competition between them, as they catered to different audiences, and expressed confidence in her thriving future in the industry.